Everybody Loves Raymond - Season 4 Episode 13
Bully on the Bus

Ray and Debra have differing points of view on how best to handle the situation when they learn that Ally has been bullying another child on the school bus. Ray thinks Allys pushiness comes from Debra. Meanwhile, Debra thinks if she doesnt instill that independence in Ally, shell end up being a wuss - just like her dad. But, when push comes to shove and they confront Ally about how to better her behavior, they find themselves questioning their own parenting abilities.